Being a bit of a nerd I held off a while month before dropping a Lord of the Rings reference, so here is one that truly sucks out to me as something to think on. “All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.’” – Gandalf to Frodo in the fellowship of the ring. I think about time often, because I never feel that I have enough of it. I’m always feeling if I had more time I could do _____. If only that extra time was available to me right? I’d never miss out on anything I wanted again. Not so.
We are all handed the same amount of time each day. 24 hours a day, a few hours to sleep, a few hours for work, a few hours of to do’s, and never enough time for recreation. As busy people are handed the balancing act of trying to figure out where to invest our time. We are required to choose what we value most, choosing one thing over another can be terrifying because we’re afraid to hurt the feelings of others based around choosing one thing over another.
As something we all experience we can admit the balancing act is difficult, we know that choosing one thing over another could mean missing out on the little things. Those little moments we share with others are key to keeping relationships alive and healthy so choosing the relationships to maintain can be a challenge of monumental proportions. Choose wisely who you spend your times with, trusting your relationships to benefit both parties in the friendship.
Don’t be afraid to be open and honest with others about the health of your friendship, it can be hard to admit that your bonds aren’t as strong as they once were. Knowing where you stand in any relationship is vital for your own health and wellness too.