Anyone else ever find themselves quick to say no and hesitant to saying yes? Many of us seem to have the thought to think things through extremely quickly and say no just as fast out of reluctance to change in our comfort zone. When saying yes to something might stretch you a little thin, or put you a little outside of your comfort zone it may also set you up for new opportunities with open doors.
Lately, I’ve been trying to say yes more often. I’ve been trying to invest my days trying new things and utilizing offers that are extended my way. Some of these yes moments have been at work taking different opportunities extended by leadership for maximum growth opportunities within the company I currently work for. Taking time to apply for travel opportunities and personal growth within the company has helped me to be more invested in my time spent there weekly and my performance as a whole. Other yes moments have been with friends and family, taking opportunities to live a little more when spontaneous offers are extended to get out and do more of what I love doing.
I can admit that historically I have been up for almost any adventure as long as it worked around my schedule and caused limited interference with my schedule. This has limited my adventures by distance and people whom I adventure with by nearly half. I have limited my opportunities based on my inability to readjust my personal schedule.
This has been a struggle for me and for my friends as I often want my friends to jump for adventure when I am ready and it’s convenient to me and can be hesitant and say no more often than I’d like to admit when my friends reach out to me to get out and do different things.
In the end, it’s worth it to say yes a little more than you normally would. Am I saying be a yes man? No, I’m just saying try saying yes a few more times a month and see where that can take you on a personal and professional level.
As a writer, you scribble words on a page for others to read. You hope the words you write flow together in a series that makes sense to those who might read them and relate to you just enough they keep reading. Your stories and messages may not always be perfect at all times but be perfect for certain seasons of life when the reader can relate to the writer and their thoughts put to written words.
As a reader, you are reading into the mind and soul of the writer. The way that they see life, their interpretation of it, and their hopes for it. For some readers, the ability to immerse yourself in a book for hours on end might come easier than for others. Personally, I read one page at a time. I set reading goals based around the time I set aside each day to read. I set a specific time aside each day due to the schedule I have and the ease of distractions that can consume my day.
I enjoy reading slowly to best understand the material the author has taken the time to organize and present. I know there are many who have the ability to read fast and retain knowledge, I am not one of those people. I can obviously skim pages and retain a few key points but the overall message of the text is often missed if I speed read. If you’re like me one page at a time is the best way to read a good book.
No matter your reading level you can set a few minutes aside each day and read a little but. No matter what you like to read a newspaper, a magazine, a story, or something educational reading is reading and you’ll be better for it. I try reading around lunchtime on my lunch break, it is a good way to refresh myself and disconnect from work for a short time. Whenever you can schedule in a few minutes to read daily and see how your world changes one page at a time.
The lack of posts last month was the cause of numerous excuses made by me. I made the decision that I wanted to put out content that made sense that could motivate people to live happier lives. After the first night of closing my laptop because my writing didn’t have meaning or make sense a trend began of repeated nights of closed laptop and excuses to avoid writing my nightly entry. I sabotaged my own goal because I was afraid of becoming stagnant in my personal growth.
What I noticed with all my excuses came actual feelings of stagnation with my daily routines. I felt that writing something out at night was the last push at putting thoughts out there that might help someone in their life. It’s a strange thing to want to have influence that reaches farther than your immediate circle or people you know in day to day life. The world is a big place but the opportunities the internet allows for are endless because just a few minutes of typing and a few clicks and my thoughts are shared around the globe.
This isn’t a promise to anyone but myself to be better this month at writing my desired three hundred words a day, every day. My goal is to finish the month with a post a day as I had committed to at the beginning of the year. This was my original intent to write simple messages that might have an influence on others. So here we go again.
We need to spend more time doing the things we want to, less dragging ourselves through the hoops others expect of us to each day. Take a little more time for yourself, disconnect from your phone and live a life less connected.
That’s the message for today live a better life through taking a little more control of your time each day.